Clarity Matrix — Relationships
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The relationship decisions
that deserve real clarity.

Evaluate a relationship, commitment, or major interpersonal decision — scored against what you genuinely need, not what you think you should want.

Completely free
Free
No payment · No account · No data collected · Ever
✦   For commitments, major steps, and relationship crossroads.
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What this tool evaluates

Built for the relationship question
you're not sure how to answer.

This isn't a compatibility quiz. It's a weighted framework that helps you understand what you actually need — and how honestly this relationship delivers it across 14 meaningful areas.

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Emotional Connection
Do you feel genuinely known and understood by this person?
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Shared Values
Are the things that matter most to you aligned — not just compatible?
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Attraction & Intimacy
Is there the kind of connection that sustains a long-term bond?
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Communication
Can you navigate hard conversations without losing each other?
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Growth & Independence
Does this relationship make you more yourself, not less?
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Practical Compatibility
Do your lives — finances, logistics, habits — actually work together?
💛 14 weighted life areas · Two reflection prompts each
"What do you need from a relationship to feel genuinely loved and secure?"
"Where do you feel the most uncertainty — and why does it matter?"
How it works

Four steps to clarity
on relationships.

This tool runs a four-step weighted framework — calibrated with reflection questions specific to relationships.

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Set your weights
Tell it how much each life area matters to you. The defaults are calibrated — adjust them to match your reality.
02
Ground yourself
Answer two reflection prompts per area with real examples. This is what makes scoring meaningful rather than abstract.
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Score the option
Rate how well the option supports each area. Your reflections appear as reminders. Add notes for your reasoning.
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See the truth
Get a weighted score, critical miss alerts, real strengths, and four closing questions that cut through what the numbers miss.
Built into every app

No subscriptions.
No accounts. No cloud.

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Weighted scoring

Areas multiply by their importance tier — so a critical miss in a Very Important area carries real weight in the final score.

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Auto-save & session restore

Saves silently as you type. Come back to the same browser and it picks up exactly where you left off — no account needed.

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Export & import save files

Download your session as a .json file to keep long-term, share with a coach or trusted person, or move between devices.

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Full PDF export

Generate a beautifully formatted PDF of your reflections, scores, breakdown, and closing questions — yours to keep or share.

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Fully customizable

Add your own life areas, rewrite the default weights, and make each tool entirely your own. Nothing is locked.

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Completely private

Single HTML files that run in your browser. No server, no account, no data sent anywhere. Your answers are yours alone.

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Is this relationship right for you?

Stop sitting with this decision without a clear framework. Clarity Matrix walks you through 14 weighted life areas — scored against what actually matters to you, not what looks good on paper.

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14 weighted life areas · Works in any browser · No install · No account
No data collected · Completely private · Always free

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And always will be.

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